There’s something irresistibly hypnotic about Scorpios that gives them an extraordinary sexual magnetism. With those piercing eyes that seem to see right through to your soul, they can easily develop a weird kind of sexual control on you. This star sign is dangerously easy to fall madly in love with. However, it is much more difficult to get a Scorpio to fall in love with you.
You see the typical Scorpio makes getting close to them very difficult for others. Since this sign is not easy to trust, it takes a lot for Scorpios to open up and lower their defenses, giving them an aura of mystery and reserve that can be very appealing and convincing sexually. What hooks many people in is the challenge of figuring out what lies underneath the icy cold self-control of Scorpio.
If Scorpios give the impression of being emotionally cold and calculating at times, it’s only because they experience things so intensely and they’re terrified of getting hurt. Still waters run deep – and as the fixed water sign, Scorpio’s true feelings are powerful, all-consuming and profound. In reality this is the most passionate star sign, with a well-earned reputation as the Zodiac’s most accomplished lover.
Scorpios' sexual stamina is legendary, and it’s often said that once you’ve made love with a Scorpio, any other sign will always be second best. Sex, for Scorpio, is something to be taken seriously – a path to the ecstasy of spiritual oneness achieved through mutual surrender. It’s also a vital release for the pent-up emotions which Scorpios find so hard to express, for which reason sex is something most of them need lots of in their life.
What you need to remember is that they are capable of great sexual fidelity and dedication when a Scorpio has dedicated himself completely to love. In their mind, it's forever, and they can be pretty obsessed about their all or nothing approach. The greater the sense of vulnerability of a Scorpio, which will depend on how badly they have been hurt in the past, the more probable it is that the notorious envy and desire for power of this sign will begin to surface.
For some, Scorpio’s full-on approach can be a huge sexual turn-on. For others it’s a bit too hot to handle and the source of a lot of anguish. Cross swords with those born under the sign of Scorpio and you’ll always come out the loser. The only way to deal with their emotional neediness is to offer them ongoing reassurance and concrete proof of your love – and boy, do they take some convincing!
Normally, Scorpios are not the kind to engage in a lot of sexual infidelity. Because of their deep need for stability, commitment and permanence are what they are looking for from their relationships, (change and novelty are not really their scene). The only time a Scorpio appears to wander is usually as payback for the cheating of a partner. Scorpio will never allow itself to come out worst in a relationship break-down and will still get its vengeance in the end, as the Star Sign that finds it hardest to forgive and forget.