You are wondering if you have had enough love to get through certain relationships and keep them alive for a longer time. Still, the past cannot be changed and while it is important to embrace personal responsibility, it is just as important to keep moving forwards with your life. You have trouble understanding things that others did or said along the way, as they don’t exactly fit your moral imperatives. There is no reason to judge though, as everyone has their own compass within telling them where to go.