Allspice is not a blend of other spices, but a berry. It would be easy to assume certain things based on a superficial glance, but you know better and wish to see the real nature of things at hand. This approach with people is always good to rely on, but you should take good care of personal boundaries as well. In the process of connecting, you may step out too far in the attempt to follow your own compassionate heart. Find a line of balance between compassion for another and compassion for yourself.